12 STEPS OF COSEX AND LOVE ADDICTS ANONYMOUS


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The following are the 12 Steps of CoSex and Love Addicts Anonymous (often abbreviated as COSLAA).

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You can also read a summary of the COSLAA program in our directory site.



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Step 1

We admitted we were powerless over our codependency to a sex and love addict, and our lives had become unmanageable.

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Step 2

Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.

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Step 3

Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God, as we understood Him.

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Step 4

Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

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Step 5

Admitted to God and to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.

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Step 6

Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.

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Step 7

Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.

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Step 8

Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.

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Step 9

Made direct amends to such people wherever possible except when to do so would injure them or others or ourselves.

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Step 10

Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.

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Step 11

Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.

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Step 12

Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these Steps, we tried to carry this message to others and to practice these principles in our day to day living.

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Resources

Online Meetings

List of online meetings by addiction

CoSex and Love Addicts Anonymous

Summary of COSLAA in our directory

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